In Japan, the phrase for 'I love you' can be a bit tricky to pronounce for non-native speakers, but with the right words and context, it can be a beautiful way to express your feelings. My girlfriend, Yui, was born and raised in Tokyo, and she would often correct me when I'd try to say the wrong phrases. One day, she decided to teach me how to say 'I love you' in Japanese from start to finish, and I was hooked from the very first syllable. The correct phrase is ',Ai shiteru' (ah-ee sheh-teh-roo), which roughly translates to 'to exist with or be loved.' It's a phrase that conveys a deep sense of affection and intimacy, and it's perfect for expressing your love in the Japanese way.
As I practiced saying ',Ai shiteru' again and again, Yui would smile at me and say, ',Anata no ko, omoiyori desu' (ah-NAH-tah noh koh oh-MY-ee-roh dehs), which means 'You are precious to me.' It was like our own little secret language, just the two of us. And when I finally got it right, Yui would hug me tightly and whisper, ',Ai shiteru' in my ear, making my heart skip a beat. Now, whenever I want to tell Yui how much I love her, I say ',Ai shiteru,' and she knows exactly what I mean.
The first time I used the phrase 'Ai shiteru' in front of our friends was at a traditional Japanese tea ceremony, surrounded by stunning cherry blossoms. It was a magical moment, and Yui blushed bright pink as I whispered ',Ai shiteru' in her ear. From that day on, whenever we're together, we make sure to say 'Ai shiteru' at least once, just to remind each other of the love that exists between us.